For some reason, we moms have it in our head that we must constantly
be accomplishing something (as if caring for our young night and day for
a few decades is not quite the accomplishment). I used to feel a
little tied down while nursing my babies, but I have come to appreciate
both the times of beautiful stillness that are born from the quiet
nursing moments and also the not-so-still times. Here are just a few
(or more than a few) things that can still be accomplished while nursing
a baby.
1. Type (or read) a blog post titled “10 Things You Can Still Accomplish While Nursing A Baby”.
2. Instruct your child from the chair where you are sitting
to take one of his blocks and squish the not-so-cute spider you just
spotted scurrying across the carpet. Never mind, he is not listening.
You will have to take matters into your one free hand. Get up off the
couch, grab one of the 152 wooden blocks scattered across the living
room floor, and kill the spider yourself (You can vacuum it up later, no
need to get crazy here). Return to the couch-baby will hardly notice
(Just a little turbulence as far as he’s concerned).
3. Tend to the emotional needs of your other children. Apologize
to your older child who is now a little upset hat there are spider guts
on his blocks. The fact that there are still 151 clean blocks makes no
difference to him (Wait a minute, aren’t boys supposed to like spider
guts???) At the same time you are trying to comfort your daughter who
is now crying inconsolably because “you just killed part of God’s
creation!”. You are a little confused and slightly annoyed that she is
being so unreasonably emotional. That is, until you remember that she has seen her mother crying quite a bit lately for no apparent reason….
4. Stand at the stove to keep an eye on what you are making for supper.
If the phone happens to ring, no problem. Ask your child playing in
the next room to bring you the phone. Never mind, she is not listening.
Set your spoon down, quickly stabilize baby as you make your way to
the living room for the phone hunt. After the third time of sticking
your hands between the couch cushions you should be able to find the
phone. Answer with a calm “Hello?” and return to the kitchen (watch out
for those blocks that are still scattered all over the floor) to stir
your stir-fry before it burns. (After the fact, you make mental note
that next time you will just let the phone ring. No sense putting your
baby or your sanity at risk for a telemarketer.)
5. Read your child a book. Sit on the bathroom
floor and read the little potty training book to your toddler as she
sits on her potty chair (trying to simplify things by just having one in
diapers). At the same time you are encouraging your preschooler,
sitting beside you on your other side, who is beginning to read.
Patiently (I say “patiently” because he keeps interrupting as you are
trying to read another book), answer his questions as he is learning new
words, “Mom, what does P-O-O-H spell?” As this is all going on you
realize that you still haven’t used the bathroom since you woke up
almost 6 hours ago. You know you could stop reading and go really quick
but the last two times you tried to do that with the baby the doorbell
rang and this time you are not taking any chances. You decide it can
wait until nap time. You continue with the reading and answering
questions, “Yes, P-O-O-H spells ‘pooh’. Good job!”
6. Sit down at the dinner table to eat supper with your family.
Nothing like enjoying the fruit of your labors. You can use your free
hand to cut up your toddler’s food while your husband dishes out the
plates for the other children (hey, he deserves some credit here). Your
baby has been a bit fussy ever since you sat down and suddenly you
realize his diaper has leaked completely through the back of his
clothes. You stop the baby from nursing in order to clean him up and
change his clothes. You return to the table and let him return to
nursing while you carefully bring your fork across your baby and up to
your mouth, trying not to drop food all over the front of your shirt or
on your baby’s clean clothes. Mmmm. Cold stir-fry never tasted so
good. As everyone finishes up their meal, you wonder who has made the
bigger mess…you or your toddler???
7. Nurse ANOTHER baby! Yes, mothers of multiples and
moms with babies born close together can nurse two babies at the same
time. This is multi-tasking at its sweetest.
8. Sing to your baby. He loves the sound of your
voice. Hold his hand, he loves to touch you. Look into his eyes, he
loves to gaze upon the most important woman in his life…Now wait a
minute, remember I am talking about your baby. Save that thought
though, you might need it later. All this sweet interaction between you
and your baby has put him to sleep. Ah, SLEEP! Time for bed!!! It’s
been a long day. Goodnight! Wait a minute, your husband is following
you into the bedroom (I told you to save that thought). Alright, no
big deal. Remember that you will be up at least twice (or 4 or 5 times)
in the night to nurse your baby so losing out on 15 more minutes of
sleep really won’t make that big of a difference. And after all, he did
do the supper dishes for you. Even so, you can’t help but wonder if it
is the smell of dried spit-up or the un-brushed hair that your husband
finds most attractive (???).
9. Sit and ponder. Yes, what a wonderful time to simply rest for a few minutes and soak up the wonder as your baby soaks up the sweet milk. Think
about how because God so loved the world, He humbled himself to leave
the glory of Heaven and take on human flesh in the form of a baby. You
could think about this for quite a while and yet a lifetime is not long
enough to fully ponder the depths of this miracle.
10. Pray. What a wonderful opportunity to talk with
our Great God, the giver of all life, who did not stay a baby, but
died, came back to life and now lives and reigns enthroned in the
Heavens. Thank and praise Him for the incredible little (HUGE!)
blessing He has placed in your your arms for such a time as this.
“YET YOU ARE HE WHO TOOK ME FROM THE WOMB; YOU MADE ME TRUST
YOU AT MY MOTHER’S BREASTS. ON YOU I WAS CAST FROM MY BIRTH, AND FROM
THE WOMB YOU HAVE BEEN MY GOD” ~Psalm 22:9-10
This entry was posted on December 13, 2013, in Faith Growing through Mothering.